Why #BillMaher going forward, is gonna have a lot of trouble convincing me that he ain’t Trump’s mean little bitchy wanna be brother, from a different mother…
Important Disclaimers/Trigger Warnings: I’m writing this to achieve activism goals that I really shouldn’t have to make, but unfortunately feel compelled to, after watching a segment on a Real Fucking Shame, oops I meant Real Time with Bill Maher early yesterday morning.
IF body politics, real politics and profanity offend you, please stop reading this, like NOW.
Also no intention meant to offend any orangutans is intended, as they don’t hate on humans based upon weight, looks, gender and age, like other humans do to each other.
I’m NOT supposed to be writing THIS.
I’m supposed to be writing a blog about how yesterday, the 9th anniversary of my fucking gastric bypass reversal, how I’m doing, well, like 9 years later.
Which I really didn’t want to do, either.
If I’m gonna be honest…
However, my gastric bypass reversal and suicide prevention blogs are the most read blogs of mine, ever.
And not just exclusive to the United States or North America, they get quite read regularly on all 6 continents except Antarctica.
Here’s the thing…
As someone who does serious activism as a blogger, who lives an unrecognizable life that did a 180, 16 years ago and who leans on the liberal side (clearly with a conservative streak, as exhibited in my LAST blog) I count on weekends that air a new Real Shame with the funny but I knew didn’t love fat people but looked away Bill Maher, as long as he didn’t constantly remind me of that.
As I needed the distraction of his non fat bashing humor to distract from all these sad, scary and intense news cycles.
I can’t give though Bill Maher a pass any longer on his fat people hatred.
I know too much that plays into trauma that leads to people being of excess weight and too little weight.
I know the desperation that a lot of people feel from being hated on by being of fat that at best, depending on how much they weigh, leads them to drastic interventions like bariatric surgery which I’m NOT against, knowing people who died from both severe morbid Obesity complications or suicide, when wanting a surgical intervention they couldn’t have.
Although, I am better suited for helping those in crisis medically and mentally for those who’ve had catastrophic gastric bypass complications that might lead to a need for a gastric bypass reversal in patients, who also have in real life medical and mental health professionals treating them.
And how difficult it is, after having talking to many of those people who may need it, into a reversal, who don’t want one because they would rather be dead than fat again and how devastating and terrifying that is for a patient and any of their providers, myself included having that responsibility on them/us.
Bill Maher didn’t have to throw fat people to the wolves, or anyone, to make a point about things that are taxing our health care system.
And clearly he has never worked in health care or in insurance, like I have, where things like a rehab for non professional athletes with serious sport injuries or people with addiction issues, is also expensive.
I know this blog will be read and disliked for multiple reasons.
And I do defend Trump supporters and don’t think they are bad humans.
Up until yesterday, I could defend Bill Maher.
That’s until he proved he is dispositionally just as dangerous as Donald Trump is.
Donald Trump has never pretended other than in election cycles to like people who aren’t thin and pretty and who aren’t poor for the last several decades.
So I can’t and I won’t shame people who still will support Bill Maher in any way, just like I don’t with Trump fans.
It’s not up to me, nor do I feel uncomfortable wishing harm upon anyone, I think people doing that so freely, who do feel comfortable,especially in the digital era they are and it is so dangerous and I’m not capable of it, even though I’m no longer wishing Bill Maher a super great life, either.
And at least I don’t feel bad now, for at least hoping that Bill Maher, has a prescription in high doses of Zyprexa and Seroquel in his future and would love to see how that works out, especially with his love for weed and would love to see how he would fare, in regards to his weight.
For the fucking love of everything holy, please don’t generically fat bash anyone, John Oliver, those of us bigger liberals with a BMI over 30 are counting on you…
Note: Anything that’s hateful may or may not be responded to, depending on how stupid it is.
Anything that is direct threat to my or anyone’s life, will be reported to the proper authorities.