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Oh no, SHE didn’t!!!

Unfortunately, OH YES SHE DID!!!

I’m talking about celebrity Miley Cyrus, who I normally like and respect  as an artist and activist, went on an androphobic rant that could have potential setbacks for the LGBTQIA community, which that I won’t even address that, in this blog.

SO, I’ll just stick to the misandry and potential androphobic comments she made on social media this last weekend, on Instagram.

Actually, those comments weren’t potentially androphobic they were full of her own misandry issues and  ANDROPHOBIC!!!

It’s not my place to analyze  of WHY she would say what she did about men, on such a broad damning spectrum.

However, it IS my place, to call it out, when someone has that amount of influence, although it would be wrong even if someone had NO influence, when it  can be so harmful and wrong to any population of people, with what they say.

And it’s even worse, in our society today, where in case of  bias against men, it’s still repulsively so acceptable to do that to a man, just because they’re a man.

I’ve said in past blogs, that it’s not okay to hold all men accountable, for the repugnant behavior of some of them.

As women rape and assault  other women, as well as men, kill and emotionally and physically abuse, too.

I learned this a long time ago, when learning fully to accept LGTBQIA issues and rights, in my very  early 20’s, even though I never hated gay people or gay issues, I just had trouble understanding them.

I used to do volunteer work in a battered women’s shelter as a crisis phone line operator, which gave some time, to talk to some of the residents.

I remember one time there was a resident there, who was explaining her history, that she had been raped multiple times  from the time she was a young child to her late teens by her biological father and she got pregnant.

She wasn’t in that shelter though because of the rapist dad, she was in there because her female partner battered her.

My initial thought, being so naive at 20, was sadness that in that case, thinking how she could possibly trust anyone, with so much trauma, going forward for her.

Then I realized , hopefully she could find someone eventually, male or female to trust.

Trauma can be caused by anyone of any gender, race, religion, weight, political affiliation and of any age to anyone, depending on who they are dealing with.

It’s NOT being misogynist by point that out, that it should be completely unacceptable, to demonize any population of people.


I can’t believe in late 2019, that I, a disabled reclusive activist, has to point out that if it’s NOT okay to gender bash women (which it definitely isn’t ), it’s most certainly NOT okay, to gender bash, perpetuate dangerous myths and hate on men, just because they are men!!!

Note: Comments that aren’t constructive, will NOT be posted…

What Derick Dillard will NEVER understand…


I want to make a point, so I’ll try to keep this both concise and classy…

Even though the snarky side of me wants to tell Derick Dillard, that if he’s looking to find travesties, he don’t have to look very far, he’s got one in his own brother in law!!!

Because as of late, there’s so many bad things to worry about, one of the things I do use to cheer me up, when You Tube binging, is watching clips either on Oprah/OWN or TLC regarding both Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent, even though I’ve been following Nate for a long time, since Queen Oprah introduced him to the world and his mother, Nancy Golden when she was my favorite designer on HGTV’s show “Design on A Dime” almost if not over 20 years ago, when I was a single mother of 1, of modest means.

There’s always been something extraordinary about Nate Berkus, way before he lost his partner in a tsunami in 2004, that went beyond making a home, that’s probably why he not only captured people’s attention before then, but their hearts, as well.

Then as we saw the brutally honest pain that he went through after his tragic loss when in deep mourning, only sharing it to help others.

And then seeing him discover joy with Jeremiah Brent, where they again, don’t just help people design a home, they put so much of their heart in it, anyone who bears witness to that, can’t help but be inspired of them and learn how to love better, because of them.

I’d watch Nate and Jeremiah tediously build ugly small cities with popsicle sticks, cause they’re smart, funny, real, they’re lit within and beautiful inside and out.

I’d stick a fork in my eye, before I’d watch anything Dillard/Duggar related, even though like I have more time in the world, than almost ANYONE,  it’s not that I wish the entire clan bad, I just wish some of the would just GO AWAY.

Especially,  if you don’t have anything nice to say, which in Derick Dillard’s case, it seems like a matter of jealousy and spite, that 2 men who love each other (see above meme) but are so admired and adored for so many reasons, STILL have such a strong place in people’s hearts AND a television show.

And Derick Dillard DOES NOT.

Note: I will NOT publish anything hateful. Thanks!!!

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